Why Do Men Like Sex Dolls?
In Western society, we have some very puritanical ideas about sex, and our thoughts on sex dolls are no exception. We view them as something to be ashamed of, as if we are doing something wrong by having them. I say “we” because while men are the majority of sex doll enjoyers, they are not alone. Women enjoy sex dolls too. Today, however, we are going to talk about the joy of the male sex doll like the very aptly named Venus.
Despite the myths, the men who like sex dolls are just as normal as men who don’t. Studies have shown that men who like sex dolls show the same general satisfaction with life as men who don’t. They also show no tendency toward depression or antisocial behavior as non-sex dolls men like.
Why Do Men Like Sex Dolls?
Men like sex dolls for a variety of reasons, but three are the most common.
1. Artistic Enjoyment
For some men, the enjoyment of a sex doll is more than just the pleasure of having holes. The sex doll is art.
Before the mockery, consider statues like Venus in the art world. These statues were images created by artists to present the ideal woman - a goddess. While we have (mostly) moved away from the worship of Venus and Aphrodite, we still appreciate the female form. This appreciation is perfected in the sex doll, where our favorite feminine qualities are idealized. The sex doll also allows us to interact with the art that has been created.
2. iDollatry
Men who are very interested in sex dolls have called themselves iDollators. For iDollators, the sex doll is preferred over real women because real women can be "difficult." For iDollators, the sex doll will not betray them or make demands on them. She is not picky or difficult to figure out. She is simply what she is. For many men, even those who prefer real women when they are available, these reasons still exist. It could be a bad breakup, a dry spell of dating, or just frustration in general. The sex doll is an escape and a release.
3. Fantasy fulfillment
Not all forms of escape are due to negative experiences. Sometimes we enjoy fantasies just for the sake of fantasy. Sex dolls are a wonderful way to explore fantasies that a human partner may not want or be able to fulfill. These fantasies are as varied as the men who have them. The sex dolls are ideal because they are customizable, so their appearance can be changed to suit the fantasy desired.
The type of fantasy a man desires is not the only reason a sex doll may be preferred over a real partner. Sometimes a partner may not be receptive to fantasies, leading to arguments and may even be embarrassed. Men who have experienced this or have been warned by others who share their fantasies may choose a sex doll over a human partner to avoid the stress. Not only is a sex doll suitable for any fantasy; she is also a partner who will not judge.
4. Fantasies for couples
Sometimes couples also use sex dolls. Sometimes a woman may buy a mature sex doll so her husband can enjoy his solo fantasies, especially if she does not share his fantasies. It is also not uncommon for a sex doll to be purchased as a surrogate if one or the other is unable to enjoy sexual intimacy due to health reasons. Love dolls like Megan are highly customizable, so she can be designed to be as close to a partner as possible.
A realistic sex doll is also a way for couples to enjoy a threesome fantasy. The sex doll can be an ideal partner because the couple does not have to worry about jealousy or emotional entanglements. It can also be ideal if they have had trouble finding a third partner who is compatible with their interests and goals in the relationship.
